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PREFACE- a must Read.

Our Hope. Our Salvation. YES.TOGETHER WE CAN.

 

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GOD & WE

Without Him, I cannot Succeed. With Him, I Cannot Fail.

 

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SELF ESTEEM

High Self Esteem leads to Better Relationships, Positive Attitude, Strong Convictions, Self Motivation and Accepting Responsibilities

 

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THE POWER OF ONE

That ONE is YOU. ONE of 1.21 Billion Indians. Unleash Your POWER.

 

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CHANGE FOR BETTER

Change is the only Constant in Life. To Improve is to Change. To be Perfect is to Change Often.

 

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CHILDHOOD – PARENTING

The Future of the Country is Today’s Child.

Child’s Future is in Your Hand – The PARENT.

 

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DISCIPLINE & CHARACTER

Invest in Discipline Today, so that you can enjoy a Better Tomorrow.

 

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ATTITUDES-WILL POWER

Surround yourself with POSITIVE People. Find people who will Challenge you, Believe in You, Inspire & Team-up with You, to make this world a Better Place to Live for Everyone.

 

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ADVERSITIES - CHALLENGES – PROBLEMS

Adversities are Normal but an Essential Part of our Lives. May you confront every Adversity with Courage, Wisdom and Confidence.

 

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ENTHUSIASM – OPTIMISM

Success is Delivered only from the womb of ENTHUSIASM.

 

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EXPECTATIONS – COMPARISON

Expectation, Comparison & Greed Live side by side. Shun them for a Graceful and Empowered Living.

 

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EMOTIONAL CONTROL - TOLERANCE

Never Give in to your Emotions. Always Control Them. Never Display them or let them Control You.

 

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HAPPINESS – PURPOSE OF LIFE

Life is Simple. Happiness is Simpler. If a Problem can be Solved, why be Unhappy. If Problem cannot be Solved, what’s the use of being Unhappy.

 

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FRIENDSHIP-RELATIONSHIPS

True Friends & Meaningful Relationships are Life’s Most Priceless & Enjoyable Assets, more Valuable and Cost-effective than Millions.

 

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GIVING – SHARING – HELPING

If you want to Lift yourself up, Lift up someone else.

 

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GRATITUDE - THANKS - APPRECIATION

Even with little, you are Rich, if you are Grateful.

Even with plenty, you are Poor, if you aren’t Grateful.

 

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PEACE of MIND

Human Mind is behind everything you see. It’s job is to Think, which can only be done when it’s cool, calm, tranquil and at PEACE.

 

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PATIENCE – The Real Virtue.

Base your Life on Three Guiding Principles. THREE Ps:

Punctuality, Patience & Peace.

 

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MONEY and WEALTH

A Generous Heart, A Kind Speech, A Life of Service and Compassion, is what your True Wealth is.

 

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LEADERSHIP

I would rather have an Army of sheep LED BY A LION, rather than an Army of Lions led by a sheep…Napoleon.

 

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RESPECT - SELF RESPECT AND DISRESPECT

Respecting and being Respected, is something everyone craves for. One can do without money, power, glory but not without RESPECT.

 

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SELF CONFIDENCE – SELF BELIEF

“He is not an Atheist who does not believe in God.

He is an Atheist who does not believe in himself.”  Swami Vivekanand.

 

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OUR SCHOOL EDUCATION SYSTEM  - The Real Malady

Root cause of most of our maladies, our Outdated & Obsolete Valueless School Education System. For any long term Improvement in our People or Society– Revamp the School Education System first.

 

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GREED Leads – CORRUPTION Follows

Greed is the most Heinous & Despicable of all Human Follies. Greed generates Hate, Jealousy, Envy & Deceit within us. Greed has the capacity to destroy, what one has created in his lifetime.

 

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DIFFERENCES and DISAGREEMENTS

Foresight of God is Commendable. Though millions of species live on this planet, but only ONE can THINK. By THINKING RIGHT, let us Resolve our Differences Amicably and Move on.

 

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FAILURES

Teach Your son how to WIN, but more importantly, teach him how to handle FAILURE.

 

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Kill FEAR & Bury the WORRY

92% of things about which we Worry & Fear, do Not ever happen. Rest,  we can always manage. So does it make any sense to Worry?

 

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PLEASURE & HAPPINESS

Often, people confuse Pleasure with Happiness. Pleasure is felt Outside on the Surface & is Temporary, while HAPPINESS is there Deep Inside & is Permanent.

 

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LIFE and DEATH

We come to this world with confirmed Return Ticket. Only Date & Time, nobody knows. If you live your life well, you need not be afraid of Death.

Even Alexander, The Great left this world Empty Handed.

 

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CRITICISM

The trouble with most of us is that we would rather be ruined by praise than SAVED BY CRITICISM.

 

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TIME MANAGEMENT

Learn to say ‘No’. We all have limits to our Time, Energy & Interests.

If we always say ‘Yes’ to every demand made on our time, we may ruin more relationships, than if we refuse right away.

 

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EGO

Call it misplaced sense of Self Importance or False Pride, EGO is Bad and Negative. It is a Road Block to your Progress & Growth. Shun it.

 

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PLEASING PERSONALITY

Coins make Sound, but currency notes are always Silent.  So, increase your value by remaining Calm & Silent.

 

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PLATINUM RULES FOR A REWARDING LIFE

A Truly Successful & Rewarding Life has to be Lived By Rules. Make a Habit of the Fifteen Rules to have that PLATINUM EFFECT in Your Life.

 

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SUCCESS PARADIGM

Your Success is your personal Domain. It’s your View or Feel of a Life, Well Lived. Do not let anyone Trespass your Personal Domain.

 

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EPILOGUE - YES. TOGETHER WE CAN.

“Life which begins with a wail, must end with a Smile. When you were an infant, all those around you Smiled, though you kept wailing. But when you die, all around you must weep at the loss and you should Smile in Peace”.                                                       Sri Sathya Sai Baba.

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